This quote was taken from the report “Harassment in Dutch academia. Exploring manifestations, facilitating factors, effects and solutions” (Naezer et al.,2019), commissioned by the Dutch Network of Women Professors (LNVH).
“She [the person performing the harassment] had this whole meeting about how important it was that I did not tell anything. [She said:] you do not air your dirty laundry in public, we will resolve this. I know that you are a bit unhappy, but we will resolve it. If you do it [file a complaint], there will be consequences.”